How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 19.06.2025 01:03
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
That's it for today.
Ask yourself:
Can you share 100 facts about yourself?
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Does not procrastinate.
What was something you did naughty with your cousin?
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Making more friends is a goal.
Do leftists understand why young men are becoming more right-wing?
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Hangs out with loser friends.
It has been said that people with ADHD can often hyperfocus. Can that be an advantage?
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
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Do not set goals—set systems.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
What does K mean in Vietnamese?
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Why do people believe that global warming is man made?
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Procrastinates a lot.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
What I need from you?
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.